The Scorpio man, mysterious, secretive and very intense. So how do you win a Scorpio man back? Scorpio is a fixed sign, so changing his mind will be difficult, but not impossible.
If you’ve lost your Scorpio man and want him back, you must be prepared to wait. Scorpio’s are notoriously stubborn, and usually when their mind is made up, it’s made up. Many have mistaken the Scorpions calm and collected exterior for coldness, when in reality, just below the surface, the flames of passion burn brightly. He may never show his true feelings in public, but behind closed doors it’s quite the opposite. He is a one of life’s true romantics, and should you win his favor, you will be showered with affection.
If you’ve ever been in a relationship with this water sign you will well know of their legendary moodiness. Scorpio’s are well known for giving the “silent treatment” to anyone who has upset them. Unfortunately there is nothing you can do about this trait, the Scorpio man will only come around in his own good time. “Forgive and forget” is something he will never do, he may forgive, but he will never forget. Trust and respect figure highly in Scorpio’s relationships, so it’s important that you never lose either, or you will have your work cut out to get him back.
With all this in mind, to win a Scorpio back you will have to be single-minded in your approach, and be prepared for nature to take its course. You will have to be patient, as the Scorpio will not be rushed. Winning a Scorpio back will involve a large amount of self-sacrifice on your part, as the Scorpio man likes to know that they are the center of your universe, but you must also balance this with a strong aura of self-confidence, it is vital that you don’t appear “needy”. Remember not to flirt or pretend to be interested in someone else, this tactic may work with some men, but not the Scorpio man, he will only lose his respect for you, once this happens, you have lost him for good.
One of the best ways to get your Scorpio’s attention again is to play on his need to know everything about you. He will examine all his closest relationships in minute detail, until he is satisfied that he knows everyone’s secrets. Mixing in new social circles and engaging in new interests will definitely pique his curiosity. A Scorpio man tends to bore very quickly, and needs to be kept on his toes, so finding out that he didn’t know you as well as he thought he did, will work very well in your favor.